Marriage.

Marriage.

Born in India, be a boy or a girl, once you hit the age 24, the only question around you seems legit is “When are you getting married?”

You might be dating (in relationship), or you might be single. You have compulsion to answer that question.

Okay, so you choose not to answer and ignore.

I am so proud of you, How do you do that? Can you please give me tips! Pretty please 🥺 

If you are in serious relationship and want to take it further then one good news for you people, you already completed stage 1, stage 2, lets wait for stage 3, which is approval of family! Ha ha ha! The justifiable marriage approval. 

Oh and then the last one, stage 4 - Badhai ho! You can now officially change your relationship status on Facebook to “forever and ever” or “Hitched for life” or “i fell for her/him” clichè captions!

But if you have recently broken up, or never worked out that long, or “teri wali/wala kisi aur ki/ka”types situation, or really Single, or the above stage 3 failed people, bless us mother Mary.

You have to go through stage 2 called “Arrange Marriage”

Okay now, few of you must be familiar with the stage already and for very fresh people 

Welcome to the Official Tinder process of marriage!

If you still wondering what is stage 1, you have come to the right place guys!

Stage 1 is the stage, you need to understand the gravity of Your future life, the person you want to be with, then the pressure from parents, and oh i forgot 80% of work in stage 1 is about noting down “qualities i want in my partner” , “Dos and Don’t”, “virgin-non virgin”, “smoker-nonsmoker”, “Rich- higher middle class, middle class, poor”, “lifestyle “, etc etc 

(P.S: General data collected, through legit whats app group called “Bitches for lifetime”/ “Stud boys”/ “Cousins”, etc)

If you ask me in which stage i am?

Still mentally in Stage 1 and my parents have completed stage 4 and already dreaming about their grandchildren!!

I hope so few of them can relate to me!

Okay, all of the above, Keeping it aside! 

Life isn’t joke, so need to get serious here!

Big and first question 

Why Marriage?

Oh, so many answers already.

Wait, just stop there and think for yourself now.

Marriage is commitment, life long

 (India has the lowest divorce rates - not because we are happy people, because we fear stigma called “Divorcee”)

Why do marriage should come with age number? (I know how Women’s body work, so please don’t answer me with the baby before 30 answer)

Why can’t marriage come within soul?

Why can’t marriage come after child? (Woahhh, did i hit the cord!??)

Funny it is, some people just get married and never bothered about all of the above!

I was just here to speak about my stage 2 experience! But I wandered around.

Keep reading and commenting and I might post something more interesting 😛😉 about my life time experience!

I am open to advices too.